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McQuoid, Courtney. (Ed.D., LMHC)

My name is Dr. Courtney McQuoid. Over the past 10+ years I have worked with clients on difficulties ranging from anxiety and depression; identity and self-esteem; change and transition; and my specialties including: couples counseling, working with the LBGTQ community, as well as working with clients who are apart of kink and poly relationships and communities.

It’s important to me to be extremely relatable and active in and out of sessions; often texting daily. Our time is spent talking through your struggles together and moving towards feeling better sooner rather than later. I want to be a safe person for those that feel misunderstood, misrepresented, harassed, attacked, and ignored regardless of their gender identification, race, religion, sexual orientation, ability, or political ideology. I will always strive to create a safe space for others so they can be heard. Many of my clients say that are so relieved to finally find a therapist they do not have to “teach” about the language, pronouns, choices, and relationship dynamics especially within the kink/poly/BDSM world.

From a couple of Dr. McQuoids’ clients:

“Dr. McQuoid is invested in the health and well-being of her clients. She does not bring in pre-conceived notions of what healthy or unhealthy look like, but rather meets each client in their own truth, and works together with them to find health and wellness that are unique and tailored to each client. She is the most accessible, accepting, and loving therapist I have ever worked with.”

“Courtney is the most invested, compassionate therapist, friend I have ever encountered.  She has cried tears of sorrow and of joy for me and my struggles and triumphs, and above all has always made me feel welcome, accepted and loved.  She has brought awareness of myself and others into my life and consciousness in a way I did not know I needed before seeing her.”

46 Prince St, Suite LL002
(585) 576-9385
(585) 473-9561
Rochester Kink Society (RKS)

Come Play With Us!

Rochester Kink Society is a member-run BDSM organization in Rochester, New York dedicated to openness, tolerance, safety, and education. We are a pansexual organization and do not discriminate on the basis of gender, gender expression, sexual orientation, or fetish. RKS has people of all genders, gender identities, and gender expressions, cis-gender and transgender folks alike  who are single, coupled, and polyamorous. We are Masters, slaves, Dommes, submissives, switches, Tops, bottoms, Leather folk, fetishists, Goths, and others. Members and guests are expected to attend RKS functions with an open mind and mutual respect, as well as learn and practice scene etiquette.

Want to meet us in a casual environment?  We invite anyone interested in BDSM and/or RKS to come meet us at one of our munches or socials.  Anyone ages 18+ is welcome to come visit us on the first Thursday evening of every month from 7p-9p at Bathtub Billy’s on W. Ridge Rd (in the back room) or on the third Sunday of every month (except August) from 2:30p – 4:30p at Jay’s Diner on W. Henrietta Rd in the private side room.  You can find information about us, including our upcoming educational events on our website at

* RKS has been SafeZone Trained by the Gay Alliance.

** RKS is a proud sponsor of Ride For Pride, the Gay Alliance bike ride fundraiser 2014, 2015, and 2016!

PO Box 18556